Default Creative Settings With Paul de Tourreil
(For Part 1 of Paul's interview, check out Episode 3, Default Adult Settings With Paul de Tourreil)
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Back for more, we have Part 2 of my interview with Paul de Tourreil. It’s a celebration of honesty, creativity, self-love, perseverance, and the daily joys of being a person. We return to Attached’s Letter, where Paul offers zero-bullshit advice. Attached’s fraught situation leads Paul to get vulnerable about his recent romantic struggles, and how his default adult settings might have derailed a good thing. Luckily, the ensuing revelations left Paul with magnificent fodder for his fringe show which we all can’t wait to watch. And for our last topic, we delve into ROUTINES. Morning routines, creative routines, cleaning routines. If you’re stuck on a creative project, or just looking to get things done, this is your episode. It even wraps up with a tiny karaoke segment to awaken your creative spirit. Thank you so much, Paul! I had a real blast.
About Paul:
Paul de Tourreil is on Instagram @postitpaul
Check out Paul’s website at postitpaul.ca/
Learn more about his show here
Get your tickets here
10% of all proceeds go to The Native Women’s Shelter of Montréal
Support Paul’s show via his crowd-funding campaign
9 Lives, 8 Near-Misses: life lessons from near-death events—check out show times below!
Paul’s Show Venue: ESPACE FREESTANDING ROOM 4324 Boulevard, Saint-Laurent, #300 Montreal, Quebec, H2W 2R2 freestandingroom.com
Friday, June 2 @ 9 p.m.
Saturday, June 3 @ 6 p.m.
Sunday, June 4 @ 6 p.m.
Friday, June 9 @ 5 p.m.
Saturday, June 10 @ 8 p.m.
Sunday, June 11 @ 6 p.m.
Thursday, June 15 @ 7 p.m.
Friday, June 16 @ 6 p.m.
Saturday, June 17 @ 9 p.m.
Sunday, June 18 @ 5 p.m.
Plugs and Resources:
TJ Dawe, a marvellous playwriting teacher and fringe performer:
Kaizen: the Japanese philosophy of continuous improvement.
Tiny Ukulele Segment: Country Roads
Mixing, Ukulele, and Cover Art by Erica J. Schmidt in Montréal, Quebec.
Special thanks to Taes Leavitt (darling big sister, Big Heart Journey), Sherwin Tjia (technical and creative advisor, Sherwin’s Quirky Events), and my dearly departed Eileen Gun, whose generous gift helped to fund my new podcast equipment. Thank you so much for listening! Stay tuned for more episodes extra soon. Don't forget to follow This Is Your Strange and Beautiful Life on your favourite podcast platform. And if you enjoyed the episode, I would be immensely grateful if you could share it with a friend and/or leave a kind and enthusiastic rating and review.
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Today’s Listener Question From Attached:
Dear Erica (and Paul),
I am about to enter my 36–40 age bracket. I spent my 31–35 age bracket with a boyfriend I’ll call Old Man Dad. OMD. I tend to refer to my partners as old men or dads because I seem to need supervision and reassurance through standard adult tasks. Me and OMD have always had great chemistry but there have been red flags from the start. He has a complicated relationship with his volatile ex who is controlling and financially manipulative. She calls all the shots in terms of custody so my bf is almost never available on evenings and weekends. There’s a ton of unspeakable drama and OMD also has chronic financial distress. Whenever I express concern or frustration that we don’t get to spend much quality time together, he bites my head off. He tends to put me down for being too needy and demanding and he criticizes me for having slept with other people before we got together and during breaks in our relationship. When I try to stick up for myself, he says I am too sensitive. We have probably broken up 49 times in the last four years. But I’m never able to call it quits for good. I love him and believe he’s a good person. But I don’t want to spend my 36–40 age bracket in a relationship that will never meet my needs. What should I do?
Love, Attached
PS: We had a few technical glitches during this recording. You may hear a tiny intermittent chirp in the background toward the end of the episode. The power went out and despite my best efforts, I could not silence the chirp. I did everything I could to minimize this interference in the recording and tried to make it as subtle as possible. Unfortunately, I could not completely get rid of it. My apologies! Perhaps you can pretend it is a benevolent imaginary bird friend. But I wanted to mention it in case you thought it was your tinnitus acting up.
